What is Trust?

It’s difficult to thrive when nobody trusts you, but it’s more difficult to thrive when you don’t trust anybody. Trust is irreversible, it’s like paper, if you tear it, and then try to glue it together, the bond, it won’t be direct, the paper won’t be like it was before, such is trust, once break it, you won’t be able to join that bond again.

If you want somebody to trust you, you need to work hard, and if you want to trust somebody, you still have to work hard.

If you work hard and make people believe in you, you should never stop working hard, because your hard work was what they had trust in, keep yourself consistent.

Same is with trusting people, you still need to work hard, and this time too, you need to work hard on yourself, you need to tell yourself that, you can trust a person, whatever be the situations and circumstances.

If you think you are working hard enough to gain a person’s trust, and that person will not trust you anyways, you need not try any more, I am not telling you to give up, you can go on trying, but what I am saying is, if a person does not want to, can not or will not, trust you, and you think or know that, you should stop trying. It’s the choice of the person, to trust you or not to.

Same is with you, you have to choose whether to trust a person or not, you need not change your choices under influence of somebody, you just need to ask yourself, can I trust her/him? If your answer’s no, you don’t need to change it, and if your answer’s yes, don’t change it.

And you can’t change people’s thoughts about you, so don’t try to change them, I would tell you to ignore them.

It’s upon you to trust somebody, and make somebody trust you.

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